Family Stories

Notes for a sermon preached on August 2, 2026 at Holy Trinity Anglican Church, Edmonton; Texts: Genesis 32:22-31; Matthew 14:13-21

I belong to a denomination which follows the Revised Common Lectionary (RCL) in its semi-continuous version. The RCL is a descendant of the Lectionary introduced in the Roman Catholic church after Vatican II. That one, and all its various offspring, call for four Scripture selections to be read at a Sunday celebration of the Mass (usually called the Holy Eucharist in my church).

The first reading is taken from the Hebrew Scriptures, sometimes including Deuterocanonical (aka Apocryphal) selections. This is followed by a psalm or portions of one, usually chosen to reflect the theme of the first reading. Two readings from the New Testament follow. The first one is selected from one of the letters and other writings, and the second from one of the Gospels.

The Roman Lectionary was designed so that the first reading reflected in some way the theme of the Gospel lesson. Subsequent ecumenical versions of the Lectionary during “ordinary time” either followed this pattern or chose readings from the Hebrew Scriptures that followed various stories in a semi-continuous pattern. For instance, the readings in this summer (2026) have been excerpts from the lives of the patriarchs Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. At the same time, the Gospel lessons have been from Matthew.

A good resource for the RCL in both versions is produced by the Divinity Library at Vanderbilt University. It can be found at https://lectionary.library.vanderbilt.edu/.

During ordinary time the RCL version we use can often present a big challenge for preachers. Because the Hebrew Scripture and Gospel readings are not chosen for similar themes, trying to find a single theme for a Sunday is very difficult. Some preachers opt to preach what are sometimes call “four-leaf clover” sermons, basically a short exposition of each of the four selections. Sermons like this are rarely memorable, and often confusing! The more common tactic is to choose one reading to focus on, and if possible, draw in an illustration or two from the others.

I was asked to preach on August 2, when the first reading was Genesis 32:22-31, and the Gospel was Matthew 14:13-21. Jacob wrestling a “man” who may be an angel or God is an eerie and enigmatic text, a difficult but potentially fertile text for the homilist. Jesus feeding the 5,000 is a well-know story that also deserves its time. I was attracted to both texts and couldn’t decide which one to focus on. They are so different that any attempt to find a single theme seemed pointless.

About a week before the scheduled sermon, I suddenly thought of a larger-scale, overriding theme for which I could use both texts together. What follows is the preaching text that came out of that insight. I hope the reader will find it helpful.

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My cousin Sue came from England to visit our family in the summer of 1969. She is the daughter of my mother’s older sister, who had died in a car crash about 10 years before. We had a great time getting to know her better, and she had an even better time, as I remember it.

Sue’s father had stopped talking about any family history after my aunt’s death. I suspect it was simply too painful for him, but the effect on her was devastating. She told my mother, “I don’t know who I am or where I came from. I have no stories.” My mother spent a lot of time with her, going through photo albums, talking about the various people pictured there, and sharing her memories of her family. It was truly transformative for Sue.

Families need their stories. Stories tell us who we are, rooting us in the past, and pointing the way to the future. Without our family stories, we are like people dropped in a trackless desert, with no memory of how we got there, and without any way of knowing how to get out of the wilderness.

The thing about family stories is that the ones that get retold most often are the unusual ones, the ones with surprises and twists that lead us to new ways of understanding. They also tend to get told in different ways by different people. The central stories of the family of God as we understand it are found in the Bible. Stories from both Testaments help us to understand who we are before God, how we got here, and how we might move forward into God’s unfolding future.

At this time of the church year, our Lectionary doesn’t give us a theme each week. Instead, it works through stories from both Testaments in a semi-continuous fashion. This summer, we have been hearing some of the highlights of the family of Abraham, and journeying through Matthew’s Gospel. Today we heard two stories from these series: Jacob wrestling with God, and Jesus feeding the 5,000. Both are surprising in their own way. They have no apparent connection, but both raise all sorts of questions when we hear them. And both are formative of the family of God.

I have heard many people try to explain the feeding story, but it seems to me that trying to figure out how it happened is a losing proposition. We have no way of knowing how the food was “multiplied,” except to understand that God was active in some way through Jesus’ ministry. The driving motive for the episode is Jesus’ compassion for the crowds, healing their sick, and feeding them with food.

I once heard a speaker say that asking if a Bible story happened exactly as told can only lead to division. Some will say, “It’s in the Bible, so it must be true exactly as written.” Others will say, “It doesn’t make sense in any modern understanding, so we can’t say that it’s true at all.” There is a way out of this dilemma: don’t ask if it happened as written, rather ask what the story means. That question can, and often does, lead us into action, based on a new understanding of God’s purpose in the story.

If I ask what the feeding of the 5,000 means, the short answer seems to me to be that Jesus shows up and people get fed. Jesus still shows up today among hungry people, people who turn up at places like the Mustard Seed and the Bissell Centre, to be fed in both body and soul. Compassionate action like this was formative in the early church (see the first few chapters of Acts) and continues to be formative today. We learn to be like Jesus by doing what Jesus did.

Mosaic in the Church of the Multiplication, Tabgha, Israel

We hear the call to do this every time we hear the story, and indeed every time we celebrate the Eucharist. You may have noticed the sentence, “Taking the five loaves and the two fish, he looked up to heaven and blessed and broke the loaves and gave them to the disciples, and the disciples gave them to the crowds.” He took bread, blessed it (gave thanks), broke it, and gave it (through the disciples’ ministry) to the crowds, the same four actions in every celebration of the Eucharist. Jesus shows up—and we are fed and sent forth to share the blessing.

What then of Jacob and his wrestling match? This story almost reads like an episode of “The Twilight Zone,” eerie and inexplicable. One study Bible says the story is the most enigmatic event among the stories of Jacob. No kidding! A night-long wrestling match with a “man” who turns out to be either an angel or God is certainly out of the ordinary. It doesn’t seem to point us toward positive action as does the other story, but recounts in third person an event which had only one human witness, Jacob, the story’s subject. No multitude here, just one lone man wrestling with “a man.”

The setting is important. Jacob is heading for a meeting with his brother Esau, whom he had tricked out of his birthright and blessing. He sends his entourage ahead with all his possessions, leaving him utterly alone, just as Jesus was left utterly alone in Gethsemane. And in both stories, struggle ensues.

The wrestling match has two outcomes. First, Jacob’s hip is “put out of joint,” so that he ends up limping—bearing the marks of the struggle in his person. Second, Jacob receives a new name, Israel, the name by which his people are known to this day, a name meaning something like “the one who strives with God.”

The two outcomes do not have the same kind of positive appeal as the feeding of a multitude. A new people will emerge from this event, bearing the wounds of an ongoing struggle with God. You can read the rest of the Hebrew scriptures in this light, as the people of Israel continue their struggle to become more truly the people of God. This strange story is truly formative of the people of God.

Thus, we have two stories, both pointing us toward how people are shaped into being truly the family of God, limping like Jacob into a future where all are cared for.

We come to the Eucharist today bearing all the marks of being human, wounded and hungering in our own ways, seeking to follow Jesus into the future God has prepared for his family.

So may we learn from these stories.

May we learn who we are and whose children we are.

May we learn where we have come from and who we are called to be.

And finally, may we know that the journey is towards God’s future, a future built on love and love alone.

Amen

Symbol and Sacrament

Notes for a sermon preached at Holy Trinity Anglican Church (Strathcona), Edmonton, August 11, 2024. Text: John 6:35, 41-51

I invite you take a moment to look around this church, identifying some of the symbols around you, and perhaps considering what they stand for.

[Call for what people saw, and how they understand them.]

Symbols are important. We find them everywhere, ranging from the very commonplace to the profound.

Open a hymn book, and you find pages and pages of symbols, both musical notation and printed text. The hymns they represent come to life only when we sing them. There is no one right or wrong way to interpret these symbols, which depend on the readers’ and performers’ points of view and abilities.

You will very often see an important symbol at public buildings—the Canadian flag. The flag represents our country, but its function is to point to the realities of place and people. The flag’s meaning depends on the viewer’s point of view—how we understand and relate to our country, its land, its people, and its history.

There are many crosses around this building, all pointing to the story of salvation as we learn it from the Gospels. Once again, we understand the Cross in many and varied ways, none of which are the ultimate answer.

Symbols are like sign posts by the road, pointing away from themselves to something else. But some symbols are more than that—they not only point to, but also embody the reality of the thing they are pointing to. In Church talk, we call these symbols “sacraments.”

We are gathered here today to participate in what for many is the central symbol of Christian life. We are here to celebrate the Eucharist, the sacrament in which believers share in the body and blood of our crucified saviour. We are here to partake of the Bread of Life, the very being of Jesus.

The language we hear throughout Chapter 6 of John’s Gospel, the so-called “Bread of Life Discourse,” is very clearly symbolic. Jesus is not bread in the ordinary sense. He does not give his physical body at every Eucharistic celebration, but what we share in this symbolic act, from the opening greeting to the dismissal, is the fullness of his life, the essence of the Holy, his loving sacrifice on the cross, and the glory of his Resurrection.

What we share at the altar is a bit of bread and a sip of wine, but it is far more than that to those who see with the eyes of the spirit. I can’t pretend to know what motivates anyone to come forward for Communion—the reasons are as many as there are recipients. But what I believe deeply is that the Holy Spirit draws every one of us to this place, enlivens our hearts and our minds and our spirits with the written and spoken word, and leads us to partake of the bread and wine of the Eucharist.

What we do is symbolic, but the reality behind it is far more than our rituals. The reality is that Jesus is truly present among us, giving of his very self, the Bread of [Eternal] Life.

John’s account of the Last Supper does not have an institution narrative like the other three, focusing instead of Jesus washing his disciples’ feet, given as one of the signs of participation in Jesus’ work in this world. Taking the place of an institution story we have the Bread of Life Discourse, an extended narrative on the meaning of bread as both physical and spiritual food. The language of feeding of the 5,000 is clearly Eucharistic: Jesus took the bread, gave thanks, broke it, and gave it—what Gregory Dix called the “four movements of the Eucharist.” The rest of the chapter is an extended reflection in a series of dialogues on the meaning of the bread, centering on the great claim we heard twice in today’s Gospel lesson: “I AM the Bread of Life.”

Unlike Matthew, Mark, and Luke, John’s Gospel has no parables. Instead, we find extended discourses and narratives which expand upon encounters with individuals or groups. In many of these, Jesus uses spiritual and symbolic language, and the hearer interprets it literally, not symbolically. In Chapter 3 Nicodemus responds to Jesus’ call to be born again with the question as whether a person can return to their mother’s womb. In Chapter 4 the Samaritan woman at the well responds to Jesus’ offer of living water with a declaration of simple thirst. And in John 6, Jesus’ assertion about bread and his identity is met with similar misunderstanding.

John’s Gospel probably took shape over at least 50 years. It contains some very early material alongside the results of extended reflection on the life of the Church, and how it seeks to live into being the Body of Christ. What we hear in John 6 is one of the prime examples. From early times, the Church’s life together centred on the Lord’s Supper, a symbolic and memorial act which must be taught to every succeeding generation of Christians.

The central assertion has always been that we do this in memory of Jesus, and that Jesus is truly present as we share in the sacrament. How that happens, how we do it, what rules we put on it, have been issues at least since the time of Paul, forty or so years before John’s Gospel was given its final form.

We come to the table as ordinary people. We share in something very simple. But if we come in faith, guided by the Spirit, what we are as we depart is something more than ordinary people who have shared a simple meal. I have long held that the most important point of the Eucharist is the dismissal, when the People of God, having gathered in faith, heard the Word proclaimed, and shared in the Bread of Life, are sent forth to be the Bread of Life for the world.

Gandhi said:
To a hungry [person], a piece of bread is the face of God.

May we go forth from this place today to show the face of God to all whom we meet, sharing the Bread of Life both physically and spiritually in the same love which Jesus showed to us on the cross.

Symbols? May we all be symbols of God’s love in the world. And more than that, may our presence with others be a sacrament, making God’s love more real in all that we do, all that we say, all that we are.

May it be so.

Doing it again

Today I had the privilege of preaching and presiding at the Eucharist at Holy Trinity (aka “HTAC”). I had been scheduled to preach for a while, but other commitments took both our Rector and our Assistant Priest away from the parish. So…

Yours truly got to do what I used to do most Sundays for a quarter of a century. They say that riding a bike is easy once you learn how to do it, and once you have learned, doing it again is simple. You just get in the saddle and pedal.

That’s rather how today felt. HTAC is not “my” parish, at least not in the sense that St. Matthew’s Cathedral and St. Augustine’s-Parkland were. There, I was the Rector, expected to be present and available every day, and to do what had to be done at pulpit and altar most Sundays. Most Sundays at HTAC, I’m sitting in the back row of the bass section in the church choir, and happy to be there.

Today was different. I prayed with the choir before the service as usual, but today I led the prayers. I sang the psalm with the choir, but today from the presider’s desk. I proclaimed the Gospel and preached, and then went to the altar to preside at the sacrament.

These things happen every Sunday at HTAC. But today I assumed roles that other people usually take. And (I have to confess) it felt good.

Readers of this blog may have intuited that I wasn’t really ready to retire in 2013, but rather that the situation was forced on me. Today reminded me that I still feel most alive when I’m ministering in the pulpit and at the altar. I still believe that this I what God made me for, but I recognize that other people have similar calls, and that I have to let go as I am able.

I am truly grateful for today’s experience. I hope that my ministry today helped at least someone. That’s all I can expect, and all any ordained person can hope for.

Thanks be to God for this day. I have posted the text for today’s sermon under “Sermons and theological discussions.” Read it HERE.

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