Family Stories

Notes for a sermon preached on August 2, 2026 at Holy Trinity Anglican Church, Edmonton; Texts: Genesis 32:22-31; Matthew 14:13-21

I belong to a denomination which follows the Revised Common Lectionary (RCL) in its semi-continuous version. The RCL is a descendant of the Lectionary introduced in the Roman Catholic church after Vatican II. That one, and all its various offspring, call for four Scripture selections to be read at a Sunday celebration of the Mass (usually called the Holy Eucharist in my church).

The first reading is taken from the Hebrew Scriptures, sometimes including Deuterocanonical (aka Apocryphal) selections. This is followed by a psalm or portions of one, usually chosen to reflect the theme of the first reading. Two readings from the New Testament follow. The first one is selected from one of the letters and other writings, and the second from one of the Gospels.

The Roman Lectionary was designed so that the first reading reflected in some way the theme of the Gospel lesson. Subsequent ecumenical versions of the Lectionary during “ordinary time” either followed this pattern or chose readings from the Hebrew Scriptures that followed various stories in a semi-continuous pattern. For instance, the readings in this summer (2026) have been excerpts from the lives of the patriarchs Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. At the same time, the Gospel lessons have been from Matthew.

A good resource for the RCL in both versions is produced by the Divinity Library at Vanderbilt University. It can be found at https://lectionary.library.vanderbilt.edu/.

During ordinary time the RCL version we use can often present a big challenge for preachers. Because the Hebrew Scripture and Gospel readings are not chosen for similar themes, trying to find a single theme for a Sunday is very difficult. Some preachers opt to preach what are sometimes call “four-leaf clover” sermons, basically a short exposition of each of the four selections. Sermons like this are rarely memorable, and often confusing! The more common tactic is to choose one reading to focus on, and if possible, draw in an illustration or two from the others.

I was asked to preach on August 2, when the first reading was Genesis 32:22-31, and the Gospel was Matthew 14:13-21. Jacob wrestling a “man” who may be an angel or God is an eerie and enigmatic text, a difficult but potentially fertile text for the homilist. Jesus feeding the 5,000 is a well-know story that also deserves its time. I was attracted to both texts and couldn’t decide which one to focus on. They are so different that any attempt to find a single theme seemed pointless.

About a week before the scheduled sermon, I suddenly thought of a larger-scale, overriding theme for which I could use both texts together. What follows is the preaching text that came out of that insight. I hope the reader will find it helpful.

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My cousin Sue came from England to visit our family in the summer of 1969. She is the daughter of my mother’s older sister, who had died in a car crash about 10 years before. We had a great time getting to know her better, and she had an even better time, as I remember it.

Sue’s father had stopped talking about any family history after my aunt’s death. I suspect it was simply too painful for him, but the effect on her was devastating. She told my mother, “I don’t know who I am or where I came from. I have no stories.” My mother spent a lot of time with her, going through photo albums, talking about the various people pictured there, and sharing her memories of her family. It was truly transformative for Sue.

Families need their stories. Stories tell us who we are, rooting us in the past, and pointing the way to the future. Without our family stories, we are like people dropped in a trackless desert, with no memory of how we got there, and without any way of knowing how to get out of the wilderness.

The thing about family stories is that the ones that get retold most often are the unusual ones, the ones with surprises and twists that lead us to new ways of understanding. They also tend to get told in different ways by different people. The central stories of the family of God as we understand it are found in the Bible. Stories from both Testaments help us to understand who we are before God, how we got here, and how we might move forward into God’s unfolding future.

At this time of the church year, our Lectionary doesn’t give us a theme each week. Instead, it works through stories from both Testaments in a semi-continuous fashion. This summer, we have been hearing some of the highlights of the family of Abraham, and journeying through Matthew’s Gospel. Today we heard two stories from these series: Jacob wrestling with God, and Jesus feeding the 5,000. Both are surprising in their own way. They have no apparent connection, but both raise all sorts of questions when we hear them. And both are formative of the family of God.

I have heard many people try to explain the feeding story, but it seems to me that trying to figure out how it happened is a losing proposition. We have no way of knowing how the food was “multiplied,” except to understand that God was active in some way through Jesus’ ministry. The driving motive for the episode is Jesus’ compassion for the crowds, healing their sick, and feeding them with food.

I once heard a speaker say that asking if a Bible story happened exactly as told can only lead to division. Some will say, “It’s in the Bible, so it must be true exactly as written.” Others will say, “It doesn’t make sense in any modern understanding, so we can’t say that it’s true at all.” There is a way out of this dilemma: don’t ask if it happened as written, rather ask what the story means. That question can, and often does, lead us into action, based on a new understanding of God’s purpose in the story.

If I ask what the feeding of the 5,000 means, the short answer seems to me to be that Jesus shows up and people get fed. Jesus still shows up today among hungry people, people who turn up at places like the Mustard Seed and the Bissell Centre, to be fed in both body and soul. Compassionate action like this was formative in the early church (see the first few chapters of Acts) and continues to be formative today. We learn to be like Jesus by doing what Jesus did.

Mosaic in the Church of the Multiplication, Tabgha, Israel

We hear the call to do this every time we hear the story, and indeed every time we celebrate the Eucharist. You may have noticed the sentence, “Taking the five loaves and the two fish, he looked up to heaven and blessed and broke the loaves and gave them to the disciples, and the disciples gave them to the crowds.” He took bread, blessed it (gave thanks), broke it, and gave it (through the disciples’ ministry) to the crowds, the same four actions in every celebration of the Eucharist. Jesus shows up—and we are fed and sent forth to share the blessing.

What then of Jacob and his wrestling match? This story almost reads like an episode of “The Twilight Zone,” eerie and inexplicable. One study Bible says the story is the most enigmatic event among the stories of Jacob. No kidding! A night-long wrestling match with a “man” who turns out to be either an angel or God is certainly out of the ordinary. It doesn’t seem to point us toward positive action as does the other story, but recounts in third person an event which had only one human witness, Jacob, the story’s subject. No multitude here, just one lone man wrestling with “a man.”

The setting is important. Jacob is heading for a meeting with his brother Esau, whom he had tricked out of his birthright and blessing. He sends his entourage ahead with all his possessions, leaving him utterly alone, just as Jesus was left utterly alone in Gethsemane. And in both stories, struggle ensues.

The wrestling match has two outcomes. First, Jacob’s hip is “put out of joint,” so that he ends up limping—bearing the marks of the struggle in his person. Second, Jacob receives a new name, Israel, the name by which his people are known to this day, a name meaning something like “the one who strives with God.”

The two outcomes do not have the same kind of positive appeal as the feeding of a multitude. A new people will emerge from this event, bearing the wounds of an ongoing struggle with God. You can read the rest of the Hebrew scriptures in this light, as the people of Israel continue their struggle to become more truly the people of God. This strange story is truly formative of the people of God.

Thus, we have two stories, both pointing us toward how people are shaped into being truly the family of God, limping like Jacob into a future where all are cared for.

We come to the Eucharist today bearing all the marks of being human, wounded and hungering in our own ways, seeking to follow Jesus into the future God has prepared for his family.

So may we learn from these stories.

May we learn who we are and whose children we are.

May we learn where we have come from and who we are called to be.

And finally, may we know that the journey is towards God’s future, a future built on love and love alone.

Amen

Come and see … and then go

Notes for a sermon preached at St. Matthew’s Anglican Church, St. Albert, Alberta, January 19, 2020. Text: John 1:29-42

On a cold day in January, we might forgive someone for asking us why we are here, although I sometimes wonder the same thing on a beautiful summer day.

Every one of us has made the decision to be here today. If we started asking each other about our reasons, we might well be into a long discussion. Every one of us has a unique story, and every one of those stories is worth telling and sharing—but maybe not this morning!

I once had a conversation with a person who was bothered that other parishioners didn’t seem to share their level of commitment. As we talked, the person started to disparage others’ reasons for church attendance. “He only comes because his wife doesn’t drive.” “She’s only here to hang out with her friends.” … I managed to call a halt, and then I said something that I meant with all my heart, and which I firmly believe to this day.

No matter how they might articulate their reasons, every person who walks through the doors of this (or any other) church, has been led here by the Holy Spirit.

It’s not for us to judge their motivation, but rather to give thanks that they are here, and then to seek the Spirit’s guidance about how to minister to them and with them. The act of walking through a church door, whether for the first time or the ten-thousandth, is a decision to accept Jesus’ invitation to “Come and see,” as he gave to the first disciples, and which continues to come to people today.

When Jesus invited Andrew and his companion to come and see, it did not come out of the blue, but was a vital step in a longer process. The two were already disciples – of John the Baptist. They were seeking the Messiah. They had no doubt gone to John in the hope that he was the One, but John pointed away from himself, to the one on whom he had seen the Spirit descend and remain.

John’s testimony about Jesus presents us with a full-blown doctrine of Christ: pre-existence, the Spirit remaining on him, God’s Chosen One. John knows who he is, and when he sees Jesus passing by again, he points to him and says to his disciples “Look, here is the Lamb of God!” They leave John and follow Jesus, apparently without any question.

Jesus asks them a very simple question: “What are you looking for?” to which they answer, “Rabbi (‘Teacher’), where are you staying?

This response may seem odd to our ears, but it would not have been out of place from someone seeking to follow a new teacher. To follow a teacher meant to spend time with him, not in a formal school setting, but staying or traveling with him. Today we might call it “hanging out.”

Jesus said, “Come and see.” They went, and they stayed with him for the rest of the day. We are told that it was four o’clock in the afternoon, which might mean that they stayed only a few hours, or perhaps that they stayed into the next day. Either way, they were with Jesus long enough to become convinced that he was the One whom they had been seeking. They were convinced enough to find Simon and to take him to Jesus, who then gave him the name by which we remember him, Peter.

And that’s the beginning of the story of Jesus’ disciples, as it is described in this Gospel. The story of Jesus’ disciples continues today, not written in the Bible, but in the stories of billions of followers of Jesus over two millennia. It continues here in this church today, with people who in some way have heard Jesus say, “Come and see,” who have come, who have seen, and who have believed.

It is the work of the Holy Spirit – the same Spirit who descended upon Jesus at his baptism – that has brought us together today. We come. We see. We believe.

The work of the Church began with people seeking God and God’s salvation, going to John for baptism, hearing John testify about Jesus, and then following Jesus at his invitation.

The work of the Church continues today with people seeking God, entering the Church through baptism, learning by word and example how others have followed Jesus, and then following – each in our own way.

Every one of us has his or her own story of how we came to follow Christ and how we continue to do so day by day. Every one of us made the decision to be in this place on this day. Every one of those decisions is one more step in our story as individual disciples and as a small part of the Body of Christ, the Church.

It has been said that the most important point of the liturgy is the dismissal. “Go in peace to love and serve the Lord,” is not just someone telling us that it’s time to put on our coats and go home. Rather, it is a charge to go out from this place and BE the Church in the world, doing the work of God wherever it needs to be done and wherever we are able.

Andrew and his companion went out from their first time with Jesus and found Peter. They got to work spreading the news.

The Spirit of God called them to find and to follow Jesus, and then sent them out again.

The Spirit of God has led us to this place, to find Jesus once again in Word, Sacrament, and fellowship. Renewed, refreshed, and reinvigorated, may we be sent forth by the Spirit to do the work of God’s mission.

May we go in joy and peace and with love in our hearts.

Amen.